God create man first reason is not because of superiority of men over women. but because good men than women said. When God created woman out, God creates man task will be completed this : He assigned the woman!

Mother's work is the work of God!

His mother and shake hands cradle is the hand of the world.

1095, the "umbilical cord" natural shedding

After the baby was born, and his mother is still a period of undifferentiated, and their relationship remains the same as pregnant women and fetuses. But like the test-tube babies, from the temple to extrauterine environment for the growth of it. Gen son's umbilical cord linking it to wait until the baby three years old, was born after the 1095 days before the real peeling.

3-year-old child is an independent individual

Since the animals were premature year, three years after the birth extremely important. Although the organism from the mother, but in reality it is not separated from the same mother, is still a period of undifferentiated. Integration of the mother and child are still in their relationship as pregnant women and fetuses, like test-tube babies, however, from the temple only to extrauterine growth environment. If the safety of the fetus to a mother born in completing the mission, and thus can wash their hands of the business. I wonder what kind of future their children will grow up then.

As animals such undifferentiated very short period, when Aberdeen animals can live independently, the parent should allow an animal to live independently. Were different, if the first three years after birth with the child to sever ties So in the spirit of the child will suffer a tremendous blow and physiology, so not normal to face the world.

God connected to the mother to take the best method is to allow time for breast-feeding mothers. Breastfeeding the child is a privilege, as well as a mother's prerogative to other mammals, Female animals born in Aberdeen, Aberdeen, the first thing is licking over the whole animal, perhaps mainly on the fetus in the womb is tactile, There is a hunger skin after birth. Animals so that mankind is so, it's usually in one year around the end of lactation. This can be extended for another year with the mother's contact with the skin. When 1-year-old walking around with the words, although not every minute of mothers, but they are still around concluded. Only three years after contact with the skin linked to the psychological transition to the contact language, the "umbilical cord" only natural peeling the child is considered an independent entity separate from the mother.

In general, in contact with the skin of the breast-feeding mothers were able to consciously assume this responsibility. But other children to a 1-year-old, and many mothers things are not that simple, to the neglect of education. If, at this time, the villagers, resulting in premature children's education, children's brain wiring to be very rough, bring trouble to their children's future growth; And if not increase education to the age of 3, then the abortion is education.

Spitz orphanages study

Thus, under the "umbilical cord" that the detachment of the previous three years, a great impact on mother-to-child. On the 1920s, people began to note not only the child mortality asylum in orphanages, but obviously slow physical and mental development, Spitz has done a detailed study on this. He families of the 34 babies born general orphanages and two randomly selected from the 100 babies, four months from the date of their birth for continuous observation.

The results showed that the medical and other conditions are very complete, with only nurse shortage one nurse for every 10 babies in orphanages allocation of the high mortality rate. In 1991 there were 34 individuals who did not survive. The baby survived the outset clearly showing the characteristics of autism, indifferent things around, slowly extreme blankly, a serious slowdown in the development process. From 2 to 4 year-old children in orphanages, the kids can walk to the station will not only 24%,40%; 50% of children would just say a few words, 30% said no; Some are not even 89 dollars. will be less than half the children to eat with spoons independent; As for the clothes almost impossible.

However, another group of infants in orphanages where the material and cultural conditions of very poor though, But with one nurse for every two babies, like my mother to look after them. So with the same general family, the healthy growth of babies. Their strong immunity against the disease, the mortality rate of infants with the same low¡­¡­

This result clearly shows that the mother or the mother's place there, for the physical and mental development of infants is a very necessary conditions. If no such conditions, children even walk these words have been regarded as a natural act train out. Although there are many different substances in the environment for every child, but the mother and child in the mother to create the environment, yet they are similar.

Yasunari Kawabata's "pregnancy period"

After three years of the "umbilical cord" natural shedding can do is the best illustration of the best people were like premature babies, infants phenomenon : Kepler, Yasunari Kawabata are on the seven infants, whose father died before he was Newton is not only premature infants. just when everyone thought Picasso was born stillbirth, Hugo was born on that little support. Pascal was just one year old when it suffered from tuberculosis and rickets, Garbo hours due to weak physical, not the same as other children in the game, but only for the game to idle daydream. In addition, Edison were born frail Nobel, Disney, Sofia-Roland¡­¡­

For these infants, infants, if genetic theory, the theory of innate, they are very bad, it is impossible for the seven premature infants compared with full-term infants, but because of premature infants is extremely difficult to bring early upbringing. even lifelong frail health, and it is reasonable to say that they could not achieve what we have achieved, but why do they have but a success?

It is premature because the original, but his mother made more effort to strengthen son's more a sense of integration, more love for the children of mothers. Kawabata is premature infants, a child's life is extremely tragic, 2-year-old losses of his father, 3-year-old mother, was indeed an orphan. But precisely because he is the family's only hope and sustenance, he was the elder of his unparalleled love. In his "grannie" A grandmother had described his concern : "both parents are frail and sick, I shortage on birth, his grandmother said they were worried that I could survive. I was young, physically very thin and weak. Until the age of 8 and had never eaten a consolidation of rice, I only be prolonging life depends on the strength of the grandmother. Although the people around him are saying that I was too much in favor of the weak and my body. However, It is precisely for this reason I removed from a dead until I pre-school, my grandmother still afraid of the flu, kept my hair long like a girl, other children teased general conclusions. "and longer, Expo Group under the guidance of his grandfather in the book, studied in Japan and the world famous ancient masterpiece¡­¡­ This is the best environment for their children to grow up constitutes. Although the physiological months premature, but the day after tomorrow "ectopic pregnancy period" has been approved by, which is exactly what those who seem inconceivable premature. infants become successful secret!

Regrettably, many mothers do not realize that, "Ater the importance of" teaching. These infants, infants grow up, not only in the next life, a moderate success, but also more happiness and longevity. this is a paradoxical fate for the black humor of mankind!

Here, however, in need of special note is that both maternal and child connected to the maternal and child is, if we miss this period. Not only baby will be obstacles in the process of growing up, but the problem arises when the mother in custody.

This article was posted on 2007-02-27